Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Keep a Journal

If you should encounter a bully who seems to have zeroed in on you, keep a journal. If you don't like to write, get over it. A journal can help eventually, especially if you have other documents, audio or video recordings to back up your writings. When I asked a supportive Deputy D.A. if there was any more we could do, he said we had done everything perfectly. We kept the daily journal, until I was well beyond being sick of it. We videotaped and audiotaped. AND, if you can keep all of that secret from your bully, you will be much better off. As soon as you reveal that you are keeping record, your bully may back off - for awhile - and then will switch to new tactics that you cannot catch on tape. These predators are very experienced. Rare is the person who can out maneuver a predator.

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