Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Any Ideas For This Target of A Bully?

I am going through the same thing. I am college student who is saving up to move out who lives eith a disabled parent in apartment complex. The neighbors above us are rude young college kids. The toture started when we said something to the office about them entarining to ludly and arguing before that it was quiet. All of a sudden they started slamming doors hard and throwing objects down that sounded like heavy furniture all hours of the night and blasting music from 9am to 4am. The area targeted is mt room there room is above my room constantly I loud music is bouncing at 1 and 3 am. Everytime I enter the bathroom someone starts slaming cabnients and each time at 4 in the morning someone starts making a banging or tapping noise usually in the bathroom area or by the closet. Because alot of times my mother is sleep she gets mad at me because I am help trying to find solution or venting. I get blamed and because this happens when she is sleep or not by her room but sge has witnessed inicidence she feels I am being to sensitive. I feel uncomfortable in the place and feel dread in reentering. We have notifiedf the rental management but they just give us the run around. The cops will probably be no help because the neighbors are able to but on front and con people by there all american appearance. Things have gotten so bad that it is causing disention in my house my mother doesn't really want hear about the situation and I feel like no one truly believes this is happening. I feel nervous and have anxiety when I return to the residence. I have ocd I feel that they are doing this partly because of I might do things differently and they think it us fun to target me. She tells other families that I am just being sensitive and they start fussing at me. I am looking for suggestions.

8 Comments:

Anonymous said...

Get Out!! You're showing signs of post traumatic stress disorder PTSD. Since you rent you at least can leave. Don't rely on others for help,take action and go. With no one to support you, you must take matters into your hands and do what is right for you. These neighbors are bullies.

Anonymous said...

Sue, tomorrow is my NFH 50th Bday. She's got a big plan up her sleeve to get me arrested. The biggest present she can give to herself. I had her arrested for stalking me 5 years ago and when I tell people they in turn tell her. She's pissed. So she has a plan to stand in the road (she lives across the street) and will act like I'm trying to hit her w/my car as I come home. What a sociopath!

Sue-Q said...

Carry a camcorder or cell phone camera and record your trip home. You could also go home later than usual, just to throw her off. Good luck!

Anonymous said...

That's what I'm doing. What a sick way to have to live.

Sue-Q said...

"Sick" is absolutely true. And for us, those in law enforcement were part of what made the situation sick. While some officers told us to use a camcorder, the D.A. and judges really didn't look at the tapes and preferred to believe our neighbor's lies. We kept getting one continuation after another, sent home from court to endure another month or two in, what seemed to us, a lawless territory. Really a sick system that makes the way you have to live even more sick.

Anonymous said...

sue, I suspect my NFh might be reading my post so could you not publish them. I'll tell you what happened yesterday and what I believe she's got planned for today and forever. I'll give you my e-mail if you'd prefer, thanks

Anonymous said...

Bullying from adults is hard to overcome. My recent experience in telling a mom that her child was vandalizing my property brought on the most horrible yelling and threats. She called the police but the neighbors backed me up. I own, they rent. Hopefully, someday they will move.

Anonymous said...

I have a neighbor from hell...help please.we each have 4 acres of land and yet they had to build their house within 100 ft of ours.so we see hea them and smell their fires. We have had a somewhat pleasant but distance ourselves from them. My issue is they have had someone staying with them who sits in their running parked car for hours at a time. Even all night.and we get the exhaust smell.have asked them to stop ..no he likes to be in the car smoking away and we get the exhaust...tried the cops...what someone does in their yard is their business ...really..any ideas..so sick of them.think we have to move..just upset that we are being forced out.